Yes! this is must

Yes! this is must

height doesn't matter...
the only thing that matters is the height of my Heels... 😉😉

                       

What I Want

What I Want...

                     

He: I’ll give you freedom.

She: Don’t!   Just set me free.

   

                                      

Does Dress Code Defines Religion?

Does Dress Code Defines Religion?

We the people of this beautiful world choose the lively hood of our own choice. We decide the clothes of men and women…so that we can make difference between two different sexes. The rule book we created in which women and men have some certain rights which has to follow until they die. It will create a problem if anyone tries to break these rules before god people will give justice in the name of the lord.

The common interaction between religion, culture, and dress is fascinating. A dress is the window into the social world. That is bound by some high set of rules, customs, conventions, and rituals that shows face-to-face interaction. Too many religious organization’s clothing is an important symbol of their religious identification. For most groups, the regulation of personal appearance is far beyond clothing. They have chosen the religion as their priority. The term dress as it is used here includes grooming, and all forms of body adornment and it also includes behaviour related to the control of the body.

The character judge by dresses. Judgment if a girl wears something different that her culture doesn’t allow to wear. No, a girl’s characters should not be judged by the clothes she is wearing. Because everyone has its own choice to choose a way to live their life. Then why?

Why we want our women to wear full clothes. We want them to dress according to their religion. Is her dress going to decide her character?  This issue not only occurs with us or other girls, the people belong to higher class also face the same issue. The social media news, when Kareena Kapoor Khan in the Maldives wore the two-piece bikini. People started trolling her because now she is from a religion.

 

In some religions, women are not allowed to wear body showing clothes. Can’t we grow up and let others live their lives? We are not creators of this mighty world then why the rule for all men and women are different. We are not allowed to anything without asking. Why?

People keep trolling Kareena Kapoor Khan because she is wore a dress of her own choice and nothing bad about this.

This incidence, from Maldives where Kareena was having a vacation with her relatives and her son Taimur. She keeps posting her picture with her husband and her son. One of her pics in short dresses that her fans didn’t like and abuse her for this. Some are questioning about her religion. The question is, are we living in a secular country?     I mean, don’t we have the right to decide our clothes? Trolling someone on the base of her dress is now an integral part of our modern society. The thing is, we don’t consider when some illiterate talks some nonsense but it’s very hard to digest when some educated people still living in that old thoughts. When people don’t like someone then they spread romours about them.

It’s not the first time Kareena got trolled on social media. She got trolled for her recent bold photo shoot for a magazine. All people started appreciating her. But, some groups or we call them a group of haters who demean a woman. We are in a state where shirtless and well-dressed have the same point of discussion.

 The best thing is to deal with this stereotype is ignore. Look some famous celebs, they don’t give a damn to these haters. So, next time you receive any comments show some more courage and do whatever you want. Don’t focus on what is right or what is wrong. Just go with the flow and you will see the world say one day “You’re Majesty”. 

 

Be a Girl

                           

Be a Girl...Who

Dress like a Diva,

Mess like a Meaning,

Arrange like a library,

Style like a Bitch,

Speak like leader,

Walk like a model,

Sleep like a caterpillar,

Laugh like a witch,

 Cry like a kid!

Her Nightmares

                                     

 Her Nightmares

A girl, like you. A girl who studies. A girl who likes to watch her favorite actor. A girl was full of ethics. But she never crossed her boundaries. Limits that she created for herself. Her dupatta never asked her, why is she wearing it but she ordered them to make a boundary between her and society. The hair that all girls wanted to grow but she cut it down so that no one admires her beauty. What stopped her. Was she scared?

I always ask my god: “Is there anyone in the world who can inspire her to do something.” She was in her school when she first got into the menstrual cycle. She got scared because her mother taught her not to tell anyone about your periods. She called her father to pick her from school. So, her behavior was natural.

Two rooms, where she lived with her family. Kind of respect she did is hard to explain but I will try. She never let her mother, brother and father did anything. She has a different face outside.

It was raining that day, she went to her school to get some certificates. The rain didn't stop so instead of walking with her friends she decided to take an automobile. Of-course vehicles have different routes. The auto driver took his auto on the road. She got scared because her brother taught her not to trust anyone. She got relieved when they reached.

I must have talked about the worst part of her life. Her brother’s friend frequently came into her house and one day, he did something wrong. He grabbed her in his arms tried to molest her. She didn’t speak a word and let him did what he wanted because her father taught her about society and notions. After a long time of being molestation, she told her brother about everything. Chill, nothing happened.

She changes her place with her family and let that guy free. Now her brother has a different view on her every action. Maybe, he thinks she may have done something wrong. After all, she is a girl now she is on everyone’s judgment board.

Remember one thing that you're not a thing. Don't let anyone make you feel less. This life is not about 2bhk apartments. There is a world outside and you must participate.

Those Naked Feet

                                   Those Naked Feet

She was playing with her friends then suddenly a sound came “chamki”. She turned her face. It was a brown face. Her clothes, suit-salwar with black spots everywhere. Messy hair with a ponytail where half of her hair out of the red rubber band. Her one hand full of green red bangles. It seems like she loves to wear all those accessories and fashionable things. Awkward is her naked feet. She looked fearless.

I used to go to my office where I saw her first time and then I frequently used that route for my office. She was like the young fashionista in her group. She used to play with her friends. I usually tried to find her house and other family members but I only saw her mother who sat in the corner of a pillar there. Chamki used to beg from everywhere and tried to collect money. I usually not give money to anyone but, I don’t know what strikes my mind when she came to me for some help. I gave her 10 rupees. She ran after taking that. I was curious to ask her about her family but she just ran and I was getting late for my work.

One day I found there are more than average kids as I have seen regularly. But she was not there. I felt weird. All of them are picking up money from everywhere. I left that place and went to my office. Next day, same kids but not her even her mother was there.  Where are they? Did she leave the place? This question kept striking my mind throughout the day. Then I thought, why am I worried about her? She was no one for me.

Next day, I kept doing my work as always. But somewhere in mind chamki was smiling. There was a local vendor who sold betel there. Suddenly he whispered something. I heard that he said “bechari chamki… now, what will she do without her mother”. I could not control and asked him: “why” what happened to that girl. He looked at my face surprisingly. He said…her mother is no more. She died past 2 days. I was stunned for 5 minutes. I asked him about chamki that where she is now, is she okay or not? He said: “no one knows where she went after this incident, no one is there to look after her mother’s death.

Maybe she left because so many kids have come to the same area and she might have thought how she would earn money. After all no one is here to give money to each and every kid. They all have the same story. “Madam ji…! You are not so strong to hear these kid’s stories. He said: “Chamki is a brave girl…I am sure her mother did something good that’s why she got a child like her.

Secrets to be happy

                Secrets to be happy

How would you conclude yourself? What’s your perspective? How well do you know yourself? These all things are connected to the core of life. The core is a huge word in itself. “Core” the main purpose of your life where you find peace and happiness. To know yourself you need to know what exactly you wanted from life. This is not about your family, your favorite color and some of your memories.                                 

Let just think about it ones. There are very small things that can make you happy and help you to know yourself. Instead of others judgment on you, try to judge yourself by doing some of your favorite activities.  So that you feel good because this time you are here to take off all your next steps. Forget that how you used to be and plan to change your upcoming life. Be kind of yourself don’t bring up your past when you’re here to improve your future.

What if a relationship or a job make you happy? So, go for it. Yes, it is totally cool. Go for that stuff that you would like to do. Like if you like art and craft then the solution is near you. Correct! Your favorite partner, your mobile phone. So, search for the best work in hand-loom work, painting and crafting. There are so many institutes that trained the carrier enthusiastic person like you. You know what is the best part of knowing yourself? Doing these activities makes you feel so comfortable and it won’t let you take stress because it is your kind of stuff that you always wanted to do. Sometimes, it’s essential to have someone in your life. Because you may feel alone sometimes and if someone comes into your life. It takes a few changes in your life like you starts to live each and every moment. Being someone in life is really effective and it’s not always about family support and trust. Something that you need is a friend or a boyfriend that makes your life happier than ever.

Ethics that are also important in everyone’s life. No! This ethic is not about others morality, it is all about you. What you think is right and wrong that you have to decide. If it is your life then make your own rules.  One thing is totally clear that no is here sitting to advice you. So, without wasting your time go for something that really makes you different from others. Miss concepts are happening to everyone. To find the real you, make your own rule book and always admire yourself.

That One Night Out

                             That One Night Out

Girl’s night out is the best sleepover to hang out. This is the perfect way to spend time together with your gang. It is all time a time or a moment that we all need. Night out is all about some precious and memorable time with your friends. Leave the men behind and take a step that you never allowed to do. Breaking a stereotype feels so good that can imagine when you actually break something. So many things to do on a night out. How to dress, where to go, with whom and all that.

                  How would you select the best place for your night out? It might be your friend’s place or some hotel, it could be a resort or club. So yes, it could be anything that fit for your night out. It’s up to you what would you prefer.

Try to find the real you and don’t move with your society

Clubbing is fascinating as you love to dance and do drink if you want. You can get your friends together for clubbing. So tell me, have ever gone to any club? If your answer is no, then make a plan and go out. Clubbing is not about looking for someone and hooking with him. It is about you and how you enjoy your night out. So, dance as much as you can because no one is there to stop you doing all this. You should try the different types of drink if you love drinking and trust me it is not bad.

 Drinking alcohol in limit is not a bad thing and it won’t affect you. Without trying anything you can’t be so judgmental.

 Take a sip of Hookah and forget what people going to think about you. Whatever you wished for, just make it happened. Rock the dance floor because this moment is yours, nobody is looking at you and no one can steal it from you.

A friend’s place:

Friend place is another best option for your night out. Girls most do the “Pajama Party”. An official party of girls where boys are not allowed. Where you do all the girly things that a boy will never know. Pajama party is one of those rare moments for teenagers where they get to enjoy in their own way without any restriction. After your teenage is over, the pajama party turns into a girl’s night party. You can plan a theme for your party like you can decide what you are exactly going to do on this night out.

                 You can also plan a Spa for your girls. All the girls love to care about their body parts and you are planning something like that then it would be great. A party would be divine, drinks and foods are compulsory. This was a good information to host a rocking party for your gang. Girls tend to stay in small groups to make that none of your invitees feel left out.

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Two Child Policy in India: A Hope or a Scope

Two Child Policy in India: A Hope or a Scope

Policy for having two children in India came in the headline about two decades ago. The policy is all about having two children but not more than two. Yes! I have seen in our society that family planning seldom works. Because people do not take any matter rigidly until it personally affects them. This is funny. Isn’t it?  A question occurs here, why more child?

Reasons: Well !! The leading reason why more child is very often used in Indian society. Yes, I am talking on discrimination based on gender. The desire for son makes them bound to have more children. This is understandable that with two child, future planning became so effortless. People have excess money to spend on their children’s studies. A woman should be more important in a family but here we have usually seen the women in pathetic condition. It is very normal because the family only care about the baby who might be a male child. (If it is a male, it is a god’s gift but if it is a female than definitely the mother having some kind of problem.) these are the saying in an rural Indian family. How it is going to fix?

How is a male child important for a family? The answer is very obvious!! For the future, for the dowry, for the source of earning. These are the valid reasons I guess!! This is usually seen that how family demands for a male child. And, in the bound to have a male child most of the couples forget about such type of policies and this indicates the born of more child. We can see this issue mainly occurs in rural sectors or those people who just migrated to an urban area.

Lack of education can be a reason for this issue. There is some verbalist who still thinks only males can do the society’s welfare. These inadmissible reflections are still being ensured by some of the people. It’s very awful but a truth that our developing society is still following such illogicalness talks. In my views, the lack of education is one of the biggest factors in the growing population. Science clearly supports that the major reason for having a female or a male child is men. And I guess it may take 1 more decade to understand this universal truth.

The two children policy has its own benefits. It is not possible with more than 2 children because in that case the study is only for a male child and the female is only for all the household pieces of stuff. Equality will never exist if today we will not take a forward step toward this effective policy. Isn’t it raising the number of female feticide and other crimes with women?

For the human welfare, it is very important to explain to everyone that how this policy is beneficial for them. NGOs and our government trying to do the best from their side. You know what, some questions I would like to ask you all there, Are government and NGOs work sufficient to stop the growing population?

Self Hood

Self Hood

Hi!!  I'm Priya. I'm a student and a learner. I was born in Jamshedpur, Jharkhand and currently living with my parents in Delhi.

I have done my schooling from a government school in Delhi. After that, I had done my graduation from Delhi University. During my college days, I have seen so many things, related to society, culture, politics and many more. Reason for being here is my curiosity. I'm an extrovert and I wanted to know everything but, with my own perspective. It's not about what people believe or what they think. Every matter has its own start so why believing in outlets.

As I am new here, let me clear few things first that why i am here I wanted to write on some of the common themes and want you all to read and give your own reviews. Social topics are always my favorite and encourage me to know more about it. This is the reason I have started my blog, just to share my views.

I am a feminist but I don't always diverge with men. Cause it's not always about men and women, sometimes it's about thinking or sometimes, how a situation fluctuate toward you. Basically, I conclude an incidence, by knowing it's full story. I'm blunt and always want to be. yeah!! I mean what's the problem to speak the truth. Truth is not about what is going to happen, it's about what we are doing and don't want to accept. I believe in equality but not in few spaces but everywhere either its men and women or its human and animal.

A debate between what is right and what should be right, always keeps moving in my mind. I don’t know why people only follow what they believe or what they what wanted to believe. Thank you for reading!!!